We noticed that many of the families in the neighborhood take walks and since the roads are still pretty snow covered, they pull the kids in sleds. So Santa brought Arabella a sled for Christmas and we have been using it to take walks. She just laughs and laughs as she bumps over the snow! I am so happy that she likes the snow and being outside!
Reflections and Observations of a Fashionista Mom and Former American Expatriate Missing Montreal
Thursday, December 31, 2009
Let's Get Outside
It has been really cold, but we still have managed to get out and get some fresh air. We just have to put on a few more layers and bundle up. Arabella has been pretty good about getting dressed for our outdoor adventures. The only problem is that once she is dressed, she is ready to go and it takes a minute for us to then get bundled up!
We noticed that many of the families in the neighborhood take walks and since the roads are still pretty snow covered, they pull the kids in sleds. So Santa brought Arabella a sled for Christmas and we have been using it to take walks. She just laughs and laughs as she bumps over the snow! I am so happy that she likes the snow and being outside!


We noticed that many of the families in the neighborhood take walks and since the roads are still pretty snow covered, they pull the kids in sleds. So Santa brought Arabella a sled for Christmas and we have been using it to take walks. She just laughs and laughs as she bumps over the snow! I am so happy that she likes the snow and being outside!
Merry Christmas...better late than never....right???
It seems a little odd to be saying "Merry Christmas" on New Year's Eve, but I need to do a few more entries and the blog will be up to date!
We had a great Christmas and Arabella made out like a bandit, Santa sure was good to her. I must admit, it was very quiet and a little odd to not be around family. It almost did not feel like Christmas, I really did not do too much shopping or decorating and the move made things a little be crazy, but we made do. However, next year will be a different story when we can celebrate properly and be around family and friends.
Arabella helped me make pizzelles and she had fun. She also liked to eat them as soon as I took them off the press. My little Italian girl!


We also received care packages from Aunt Margo and Uncle Bill and Grampie. Aunt Margo sent us yummy Italian cookies, which Jay dove right into. Grampie sent us his world famous sausage bread, I have no idea how customs let it through, but we are so happy they did. The box had a big sticker that said "CLEARED" and we are very thankful that it was. Arabella helped to take the bread out of the shipping box and as soon as we opened it she wanted some. When I toast up a piece, she wants it and all I am usually left with is the crust, if that!


On Christmas morning, Arabella walked down the stairs and she peeked through the banister, it was as if she was checking to make sure Santa came. Jay was able to get a picture of it!

Here are a few shots of her opening and enjoying some of her presents. Thank you to everyone who sent her gifts, we are so thankful and blessed to have family and friends like you! Arabella sends her thanks as well!









We had a great Christmas and Arabella made out like a bandit, Santa sure was good to her. I must admit, it was very quiet and a little odd to not be around family. It almost did not feel like Christmas, I really did not do too much shopping or decorating and the move made things a little be crazy, but we made do. However, next year will be a different story when we can celebrate properly and be around family and friends.
Arabella helped me make pizzelles and she had fun. She also liked to eat them as soon as I took them off the press. My little Italian girl!
We also received care packages from Aunt Margo and Uncle Bill and Grampie. Aunt Margo sent us yummy Italian cookies, which Jay dove right into. Grampie sent us his world famous sausage bread, I have no idea how customs let it through, but we are so happy they did. The box had a big sticker that said "CLEARED" and we are very thankful that it was. Arabella helped to take the bread out of the shipping box and as soon as we opened it she wanted some. When I toast up a piece, she wants it and all I am usually left with is the crust, if that!
On Christmas morning, Arabella walked down the stairs and she peeked through the banister, it was as if she was checking to make sure Santa came. Jay was able to get a picture of it!
Here are a few shots of her opening and enjoying some of her presents. Thank you to everyone who sent her gifts, we are so thankful and blessed to have family and friends like you! Arabella sends her thanks as well!
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
As Promised...Photos of the New House
Before the movers began to move in boxes and furniture, I went around and took pictures of the empty rooms. Once we have everything organized and situated, I will post new pictures, but this will give you and idea of the house.

The Kitchen looking into the Dining Room

The Breakfast Area

The Dining Room

The Living Room

Arabella's Playroom

The Spare Room upstairs...we are not sure what we are going to do with this room...

The Front Hallway/Stairs

Jay's Office/Work Area in Basement

Family Room Area in Basement

The HUGE Refrigerator

The Master Bedroom Sitting Area

The Master Bedroom

The Guest Room

Arabella's Room
We love it! Jay is not used to all the room and in his silly way, he keeps asking me the names of the rooms and is acting like he keeps getting lost!
We have plenty of room for guests, so just let us know when you want to come and visit, we would love to have you!
The Kitchen looking into the Dining Room
The Breakfast Area
The Dining Room
The Living Room
Arabella's Playroom
The Spare Room upstairs...we are not sure what we are going to do with this room...
The Front Hallway/Stairs
Jay's Office/Work Area in Basement
Family Room Area in Basement
The HUGE Refrigerator
The Master Bedroom Sitting Area
The Master Bedroom
The Guest Room
Arabella's Room
We love it! Jay is not used to all the room and in his silly way, he keeps asking me the names of the rooms and is acting like he keeps getting lost!
We have plenty of room for guests, so just let us know when you want to come and visit, we would love to have you!
New House
Bright and early on Tuesday morning...although it was not too bright...it was snowing, we met the moving truck at Customs in Montreal to have our personal belonging cleared for entry into Canada. Customs in Montreal is a pretty busy place and right next to the airport, which was a good distraction for Arabella. We waiting in the car while Jay accompanied the driver of our moving truck inside to meet with the Custom's agent. After about 45 minutes the exited the building and we were on our way to the new house!! Again, no issues so we are very thankful for that!

Following the moving truck through the Custom's Area.
Arabella had fun watching the CAT wheel loader pick up snow piles and load them in the dump truck.

We officially made it to our new house and Arabella had fun in the snow waiting for the moving truck to arrive! She loves to play in the snow!



I felt bad for the movers, they were moving our belongings into the house in the snow. But they did not seem to mind. They emptied the truck in a day and were on their way. Now all we have to do is unpack! It was another successful day!!
Following the moving truck through the Custom's Area.
Arabella had fun watching the CAT wheel loader pick up snow piles and load them in the dump truck.
We officially made it to our new house and Arabella had fun in the snow waiting for the moving truck to arrive! She loves to play in the snow!
I felt bad for the movers, they were moving our belongings into the house in the snow. But they did not seem to mind. They emptied the truck in a day and were on their way. Now all we have to do is unpack! It was another successful day!!
Our Introduction to Socialized Medicine
We spent today becoming acclimated with the Canadian government service bureaus and had an introduction to socialized medicine. (Please note, that this is only our experience and may not reflect the experience of others.)
We started out at 8:45 on a snowy and cold morning for the drive to downtown Montreal. Our first stop was to obtain our SIN or Social Insurance Number. It is similar to the SSN in the States, but is only used for banking, credit and employment. Therefore, it was not necessary for Arabella to obtain one. If we choose to open a bank account for her while we are here, she will then need to have one issued. When we arrived, there were 4 people in front on us in line to check in. We got checked in, had to fill out a form and then sat in a waiting area for about 20 minutes. Once called, we went to a window, they took our passports, checked our Visa's and then issued our numbers on the spot. We received a form with the number on it and will receive the official card in the mail in about 7 - 10 days. Things seemed to be going smoothly, one down, one to go!
We headed back out into the snow and onto the next service bureau. It was in another building in downtown Montreal.
I should preface this section, by stating that in the province of Quebec, there are only two (2) offices that handle the services associated with health insurance registration. As a point of reference, the approximate population of the Quebec province is 7.8 million people.
Upon arriving at the bureau, we waited in a line that was out the door of the office, I would estimate that there were about 50 people in front of us just waiting to check in with the receptionist. There were 2 receptionist windows, however, there was always a sign at one that stated "FERME" or "Closed", so really there was only one person checking people in. Once checked in, we were given a number, B113, and told to have a seat in the waiting area. At this point, have a seat was just a figure of speech, it was standing room only. The room was filled with all races, ethnicity's and people from all economic status'. See below...


We were told the wait would be approximately 1 hour to be seen regarding our registration. We finally obtained a seat and waited for our number to appear on the screen telling us that it was our turn to be seen. During our wait, Arabella had a few meltdowns, but that is to be expected when she is forced to wait in a room with hundreds of other people that is hot and stuffy and she has all sorts of pent up energy. Good thing we brought some things to keep her occupied and fed, since if you left for food and they called your number you were out of luck! 1 hour and 45 minutes later, our number appeared and we headed on to the next station. We presented our passports and visas to the individual who was processing our registration. She wanted to see a letter from CAT stating that the office was in Quebec since on Jay's work visa the location was stated as "unknown". We provided a letter, but it was not acceptable as it stated the office is in Ontario. Jay explained that our residence is in the Quebec province, his office is in our home and his customers are in the province. Still not good enough, we will have to fax a letter from CAT to the bureau for the final processing of our applications. I was thinking, "Great, we are going to have to come back and do this all over again"...but they were able to process the rest of our paperwork today. Thank goodness because I am not sure Arabella (or I) would be able to handle the wait again. We provided other necessary documentation, signed papers and after about 45 minutes, were informed we would have to return to the waiting area to be called to have our pictures taken for our insurance cards. We waited for our number to flash on the screen again and after about 30 minutes, we paid $8 each for our photos, had them taken and then were told by the picture taker "You can leave now"! I was thinking thank goodness because if I am told to go back to the waiting area one more time, I am going to have a tantrum like my overtired Arabella! At this point, we collected our belongings and headed out the door. Yippee!! I am very glad that we arrived at the bureau when we did in the morning, because as we were leaving, the line to get into the office snaked around the whole floor (I think there were at least 150 - 200 people, just waiting to get in to register with the receptionist). This number does not include those already checked in and waiting.
Once outside, I think I was just as happy as Arabella to be out of that black hole and into the cold Montreal air! As they say, it was "A Breath of Fresh Air" and it was so refreshing! We returned home at 3 pm, it was very long and tiring and I wanted to crash like Arabella!
When we receive our card in 3 months, which is the requisite waiting period upon establishing residency in Quebec, this is what our cards will look like:
The Régie issues a Health Insurance Card to persons eligible for the Québec Health Insurance Plan. Because the Health Insurance Card gives access to insured healthcare services, it is important for insured persons to carry their card with them at all times.
Information appearing on a Health Insurance Card

A Health Insurance Number, unique to each person, consisting of:
the first three letters of the last name;
the first letter of the first name;
the last two digits of the year of birth;
the month of birth (to which 50 is added to indicate female);
the day of birth;
an administrative code used by the Régie.
The person's identity:
first name (if the number of characters in the first name exceeds the space available, only the initial will appear on the card);
last name at birth;
husband's last name, if requested by a woman married before April 2, 1981 or by a woman married outside Québec who exercises her civil rights under that name;
the number of cards issued to the person since 1984.
The person's birthdate and sex.
The year and month of expiry.
The person's photograph and signature, both of which are digitized and incorporated into the card. Cards issued to persons not required to provide a photo and a signature, such as children under age 14, have no photo or signature spaces, while cards issued to persons exempt from providing their photo, their signature or both, are marked "exempté" in the appropriate space(s).
On the back of the Health Insurance Card, the Ministère de la Santé et des Services sociaux offers the insured person the possibility of consenting to organ donation (info taken from http://canadaonline.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ/Ya&zTi=1&sdn=canadaonline&cdn=newsissues&tm=20&gps=62_979_1339_846&f=00&tt=14&bt=0&bts=0&zu=http%3A//www.ramq.gouv.qc.ca/en/citoyens/assurancemaladie/carte/carte.shtml)
Until we receive our card, if we need to go to the drs, we will have to pay out of pocket for our care. However, once we receive our card, we can go to any dr we want and will not have to deal with insurance paperwork, co-payments, referrals or coverage denials!
With the above being said, not having been in the loop recently about the health care debate going on back home and at at the risk of offending some people back in the States, I think the US government really needs to think long and hard about how they will implement universal healthcare. And before everyone back home jumps on the bandwagon for universal healthcare, they may want to take a look at how it works elsewhere. It may change some minds.
We started out at 8:45 on a snowy and cold morning for the drive to downtown Montreal. Our first stop was to obtain our SIN or Social Insurance Number. It is similar to the SSN in the States, but is only used for banking, credit and employment. Therefore, it was not necessary for Arabella to obtain one. If we choose to open a bank account for her while we are here, she will then need to have one issued. When we arrived, there were 4 people in front on us in line to check in. We got checked in, had to fill out a form and then sat in a waiting area for about 20 minutes. Once called, we went to a window, they took our passports, checked our Visa's and then issued our numbers on the spot. We received a form with the number on it and will receive the official card in the mail in about 7 - 10 days. Things seemed to be going smoothly, one down, one to go!
We headed back out into the snow and onto the next service bureau. It was in another building in downtown Montreal.
I should preface this section, by stating that in the province of Quebec, there are only two (2) offices that handle the services associated with health insurance registration. As a point of reference, the approximate population of the Quebec province is 7.8 million people.
Upon arriving at the bureau, we waited in a line that was out the door of the office, I would estimate that there were about 50 people in front of us just waiting to check in with the receptionist. There were 2 receptionist windows, however, there was always a sign at one that stated "FERME" or "Closed", so really there was only one person checking people in. Once checked in, we were given a number, B113, and told to have a seat in the waiting area. At this point, have a seat was just a figure of speech, it was standing room only. The room was filled with all races, ethnicity's and people from all economic status'. See below...
We were told the wait would be approximately 1 hour to be seen regarding our registration. We finally obtained a seat and waited for our number to appear on the screen telling us that it was our turn to be seen. During our wait, Arabella had a few meltdowns, but that is to be expected when she is forced to wait in a room with hundreds of other people that is hot and stuffy and she has all sorts of pent up energy. Good thing we brought some things to keep her occupied and fed, since if you left for food and they called your number you were out of luck! 1 hour and 45 minutes later, our number appeared and we headed on to the next station. We presented our passports and visas to the individual who was processing our registration. She wanted to see a letter from CAT stating that the office was in Quebec since on Jay's work visa the location was stated as "unknown". We provided a letter, but it was not acceptable as it stated the office is in Ontario. Jay explained that our residence is in the Quebec province, his office is in our home and his customers are in the province. Still not good enough, we will have to fax a letter from CAT to the bureau for the final processing of our applications. I was thinking, "Great, we are going to have to come back and do this all over again"...but they were able to process the rest of our paperwork today. Thank goodness because I am not sure Arabella (or I) would be able to handle the wait again. We provided other necessary documentation, signed papers and after about 45 minutes, were informed we would have to return to the waiting area to be called to have our pictures taken for our insurance cards. We waited for our number to flash on the screen again and after about 30 minutes, we paid $8 each for our photos, had them taken and then were told by the picture taker "You can leave now"! I was thinking thank goodness because if I am told to go back to the waiting area one more time, I am going to have a tantrum like my overtired Arabella! At this point, we collected our belongings and headed out the door. Yippee!! I am very glad that we arrived at the bureau when we did in the morning, because as we were leaving, the line to get into the office snaked around the whole floor (I think there were at least 150 - 200 people, just waiting to get in to register with the receptionist). This number does not include those already checked in and waiting.
Once outside, I think I was just as happy as Arabella to be out of that black hole and into the cold Montreal air! As they say, it was "A Breath of Fresh Air" and it was so refreshing! We returned home at 3 pm, it was very long and tiring and I wanted to crash like Arabella!
When we receive our card in 3 months, which is the requisite waiting period upon establishing residency in Quebec, this is what our cards will look like:
The Régie issues a Health Insurance Card to persons eligible for the Québec Health Insurance Plan. Because the Health Insurance Card gives access to insured healthcare services, it is important for insured persons to carry their card with them at all times.
Information appearing on a Health Insurance Card

A Health Insurance Number, unique to each person, consisting of:
the first three letters of the last name;
the first letter of the first name;
the last two digits of the year of birth;
the month of birth (to which 50 is added to indicate female);
the day of birth;
an administrative code used by the Régie.
The person's identity:
first name (if the number of characters in the first name exceeds the space available, only the initial will appear on the card);
last name at birth;
husband's last name, if requested by a woman married before April 2, 1981 or by a woman married outside Québec who exercises her civil rights under that name;
the number of cards issued to the person since 1984.
The person's birthdate and sex.
The year and month of expiry.
The person's photograph and signature, both of which are digitized and incorporated into the card. Cards issued to persons not required to provide a photo and a signature, such as children under age 14, have no photo or signature spaces, while cards issued to persons exempt from providing their photo, their signature or both, are marked "exempté" in the appropriate space(s).
On the back of the Health Insurance Card, the Ministère de la Santé et des Services sociaux offers the insured person the possibility of consenting to organ donation (info taken from http://canadaonline.about.com/gi/o.htm?zi=1/XJ/Ya&zTi=1&sdn=canadaonline&cdn=newsissues&tm=20&gps=62_979_1339_846&f=00&tt=14&bt=0&bts=0&zu=http%3A//www.ramq.gouv.qc.ca/en/citoyens/assurancemaladie/carte/carte.shtml)
Until we receive our card, if we need to go to the drs, we will have to pay out of pocket for our care. However, once we receive our card, we can go to any dr we want and will not have to deal with insurance paperwork, co-payments, referrals or coverage denials!
With the above being said, not having been in the loop recently about the health care debate going on back home and at at the risk of offending some people back in the States, I think the US government really needs to think long and hard about how they will implement universal healthcare. And before everyone back home jumps on the bandwagon for universal healthcare, they may want to take a look at how it works elsewhere. It may change some minds.
Monday, December 28, 2009
The Road Trip Begins
We packed up the cars and left for Montreal on Saturday morning. The drive from Dublin to Cleveland was uneventful. Arabella slept most of the way and Mike and I enjoyed the Ohio farm country scenery. It was a pretty drive. As much as I do not like to drive in the car for long periods of time, it is always nice to see the world go by through the car window.
Since we love the movie A Christmas Story, we decided to stop at the house on our way out of Ohio. It was on the way so it made sense. We had no idea what we would be in for. The line to get in was long, I guess that should have been expected, it was the beginning of December. We were blessed with warmer then normal weather and it was sunny. We had to park 2 blocks away. There were tour buses and people everywhere. I would hate to be one of the neighbors! They had a museum across the street from the house that had a lot of film memorabilia and a gift shop. We took turns standing in line while the others checked out the museum. The "Major Award" a/k/a the leg lamp was ablaze in the front window and the house was set up just like in the movie. Arabella's favorite part was the blue bowling ball under the tree and the Pink Nightmare cut out in the bedroom. She did not want to leave. It was fun to see and we have checked off another box on our list of things to see!

The Official Red Ryder 200-shot Carbine Action Air Rifle


Randy's Zepplin

The Pink Nightmare

From Cleveland we headed northeast to Pennsylvania where we stopped for dinner. It was a nice break from driving. After dinner we headed to Niagara Falls where we spent the night on the US side of the falls. The next morning before leaving we checked out the falls. It was raining and cold, but it is still an amazing sight to see. There are no words to describe the sound of the rushing water going over the falls. What great power Mother Nature has. I can only imagine how beautiful it is when the sun is shining or in the fall when the leaves in the background have started to change color. Again, we checked a box for another sight that we have all wanted to see.

US and Canadian Falls

Boundary Marker between the US and Canada


Canadian side of Falls

After drying off and loading the cars back up, we headed east to Syracuse. We were planning on meeting up with Dad and Heather, however, the weather turned bad for both of us and we were not able to see them. We stayed the night in Syracuse and woke up Monday morning and headed north through Watertown, New York to the border with Canada. While driving farther and farther north, you realize how spread out the towns become and how desolate, yet beautiful, the landscape is. It was your typical winter day, no shining sun and about to snow at any moment. Traffic even thins out. At some points, it seemed as if our two cars were the only ones on the road.


Arabella passed the time napping in the back seat with Cookie Monster and Teddy!

After about 3 1/2 hours we are almost to Canada....

See this sign was a little unsettling and exciting at the same time. However, before we crossed the border we had to make a stop at the US Customs to clear our cars for entry into Canada.


Arabella and I waited in the car while Jay went in and met with the US Customs agent who checked the car titles and the VIN numbers on the vehicles. It was not a terribly long process, but I will admit, it seemed like it took forever. This is probably due to the fact that I was a little be uncomfortable sitting in the car, out in the middle of nowhere, with what seems like a military operation going on around me. Tractor-trailers were lined up single file and were then escorted through a military scanner to be cleared for entry into the US. I was happy when we were driving out of there, just a little too "sketchy" for me, I don't know how else to describe it. We got back on the highway and less than a mile later, we were at the border and sitting in the line to pass customs.

Once at the Canadian customs hut, we handed over our passports and answered the litany of questions that we thrown at us. We were granted entry and proceeded to Immigration. At Immigration, we presented ourselves for our Visa's. We again answered questions and had to fill out paperwork. In about an hour, we had our Visa's and were on our way!
After a long day of driving, we were wiped out and landed at the hotel. We need a good nights rest as we were meeting the movers in the morning. We were thankful for a safe trip and that we did not have any problems at Customs or Immigration! We had officially made it to Montreal!!
Since we love the movie A Christmas Story, we decided to stop at the house on our way out of Ohio. It was on the way so it made sense. We had no idea what we would be in for. The line to get in was long, I guess that should have been expected, it was the beginning of December. We were blessed with warmer then normal weather and it was sunny. We had to park 2 blocks away. There were tour buses and people everywhere. I would hate to be one of the neighbors! They had a museum across the street from the house that had a lot of film memorabilia and a gift shop. We took turns standing in line while the others checked out the museum. The "Major Award" a/k/a the leg lamp was ablaze in the front window and the house was set up just like in the movie. Arabella's favorite part was the blue bowling ball under the tree and the Pink Nightmare cut out in the bedroom. She did not want to leave. It was fun to see and we have checked off another box on our list of things to see!
The Official Red Ryder 200-shot Carbine Action Air Rifle
Randy's Zepplin
The Pink Nightmare
From Cleveland we headed northeast to Pennsylvania where we stopped for dinner. It was a nice break from driving. After dinner we headed to Niagara Falls where we spent the night on the US side of the falls. The next morning before leaving we checked out the falls. It was raining and cold, but it is still an amazing sight to see. There are no words to describe the sound of the rushing water going over the falls. What great power Mother Nature has. I can only imagine how beautiful it is when the sun is shining or in the fall when the leaves in the background have started to change color. Again, we checked a box for another sight that we have all wanted to see.
US and Canadian Falls
Boundary Marker between the US and Canada
Canadian side of Falls
After drying off and loading the cars back up, we headed east to Syracuse. We were planning on meeting up with Dad and Heather, however, the weather turned bad for both of us and we were not able to see them. We stayed the night in Syracuse and woke up Monday morning and headed north through Watertown, New York to the border with Canada. While driving farther and farther north, you realize how spread out the towns become and how desolate, yet beautiful, the landscape is. It was your typical winter day, no shining sun and about to snow at any moment. Traffic even thins out. At some points, it seemed as if our two cars were the only ones on the road.
Arabella passed the time napping in the back seat with Cookie Monster and Teddy!
After about 3 1/2 hours we are almost to Canada....
See this sign was a little unsettling and exciting at the same time. However, before we crossed the border we had to make a stop at the US Customs to clear our cars for entry into Canada.
Arabella and I waited in the car while Jay went in and met with the US Customs agent who checked the car titles and the VIN numbers on the vehicles. It was not a terribly long process, but I will admit, it seemed like it took forever. This is probably due to the fact that I was a little be uncomfortable sitting in the car, out in the middle of nowhere, with what seems like a military operation going on around me. Tractor-trailers were lined up single file and were then escorted through a military scanner to be cleared for entry into the US. I was happy when we were driving out of there, just a little too "sketchy" for me, I don't know how else to describe it. We got back on the highway and less than a mile later, we were at the border and sitting in the line to pass customs.
Once at the Canadian customs hut, we handed over our passports and answered the litany of questions that we thrown at us. We were granted entry and proceeded to Immigration. At Immigration, we presented ourselves for our Visa's. We again answered questions and had to fill out paperwork. In about an hour, we had our Visa's and were on our way!
After a long day of driving, we were wiped out and landed at the hotel. We need a good nights rest as we were meeting the movers in the morning. We were thankful for a safe trip and that we did not have any problems at Customs or Immigration! We had officially made it to Montreal!!
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